not the basis to start a relationship on and will end in one or both of you getting hurt . � Don ' t believe you are a perfect match and will live happily ever after . It is possible , but don ' t assume that is the case as you could be set for disappointment . � If you know your friend isn ' t the type of person who wants a long term relationship , but you do , don ' t kid yourself into thinking they will change for you . They might act the same with you as they have with past partners , so don ' t be fooled into thinking it will be different this time .