not the basis to start a relationship on and will end in one or both of you getting hurt. � Don ' t believe you are a perfect match and will live happily ever after. It is possible, but don ' t assume that is the case as you could be set for disappointment. � If you know your friend isn ' t the type of person who wants a long term relationship, but you do, don ' t kid yourself into thinking they will change for you. They might act the same with you as they have with past partners, so don ' t be fooled into thinking it will be different this time.