Journey of Hope - 2019 JOH 2019 | Page 17

MY STRUGGLE FOR EDUCATION AS a Girl without a Father in Pakistan by Mahreen I Photo by Sa’adia Khan FALL 2019 live in a place where male dominance prevails. Girls are thought to be feeble, too weak to compete with boys. I also live among people who believe girls are bad luck. These beliefs have shaped my life since I was in my mother’s womb. My father was a sophisticated man who served in the Pakistan Army. My mother is a simple woman, uneducated but courageous. My parents had four daughters in a conservative society where a son is considered a sign of success. My father was determined not to raise his daughters in this environment, so he planned to move our family to Gilgit when he retired from the military. In Gilgit, we’d have access to a good education and a comfortable life. Unfortunately, my father’s dream remained a dream: He died a martyr defending our beloved country. JOURNEY OF HOPE | 15