Jewish Life Digital Edition September 2015 | Page 15

C It is little wonder that many of us often find the shul experience so frustrating and lacking meaning. And if that’s for the “big game” on Shabbat morning, what can we say about the weekday prayers, which we approach as if the two-minute clock has started and there are no timeouts remaining? The question is, why plan something, set aside time and space for it, and then do whatever we can to sabotage it? Why commit ourselves to prayer, schedule it, erect buildings where we engage in it, and then show up unprepared and late, and go on to distract ourselves and others with chatter irrelevant to the ostensible purpose of our gathering together? Why assemble a team and act like anything but, and certainly not do our all to achieve success in what we have planned? To employ another metaphor, I have often considered the difference between jewish-life-ad-mci-2014-rosh-hashanah.pdf 1 2014/08/04 12:14:56 PM how we attend movies and how we attend Why commit ourselves to prayer, schedule it, erect buildings where we engage in it, and then show up unprepared and late, and go on to distract ourselves and others with chatter irrelevant to the ostensible purpose of our gathering together? shul. No one would pay fifteen dollars and stroll in an hour late to a two-hour-long movie. There’s no pausing or rewinding, and we do not wander in and out at leisure. We do not leave early and miss the ending, save in the rare case of a truly atrocious movie. We generally adhere to the rule of not engaging in conversation during a movie, at least once the coming attractions are done and the main feature has begun. We glare at people who speak loudly or at great length, and perhaps ask them to stop, because we recognize that they are disturbing the cinematic experience for others. As far as shul goes, you can consider yourself fortunate if you attend one where there is not as much talking as there is in most shuls. It does not matter whether it is during the Torah reading or the reading of the haftarah or even during the recital of Kaddish; some people talk through all of it. I will not address the phenomenon of A wish for peace, good health and good times for you on Rosh Hashanah and always! M Y M photograph: Mike Morbeck Y Y MY K Intelligent IT Solutions for Business Accounting Solutions | Business Performance Management | Recruitment Solutions Financial Markets Solutions | Networking and Communications Services | Mobile Solutions www.mci.co.za | +27 (0) 11 454 3420