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FEATURE POEM WITHIN A YOUNG POET’S SEARCH FOR SPIRITUALITY AND HIS DESIRE TO REACH OUT TO HIS DYING MOTHER LED HIM TO PLACES HE COULD NEVER HAVE IMAGINED BY GABRIEL ETHANS D ID YOU EVER LOSE SOMETHING THAT YOU really loved? You search aimlessly in the dark, running back and forth from one room to the other, hoping desperately to find it. Your mind is eaten up with thoughts about where it might be, who might have found it. You imagine it lying somewhere all alone, afraid. I spent years of my life searching for something that I had lost, trying to fill the lonely, homesick feeling I had inside. The only problem was that 14 JEWISH LIFE ISSUE 67 I had no idea what I was looking for. I was anxiously waiting to graduate high school and get far away from New York City. The city was stifling for me; I couldn’t breathe under the shadow of the great dark towers that blocked out the sun. My soul yearned to travel and be alive, free of the faceless metropolis. The first chance I got after graduation, I bought a standby ticket for any flight to Europe, and ended up flying to Ireland with a childhood friend. That was my first taste of the world, and it tasted wonderful. It only succeeded in whetting my appetite for more. My next trip was much longer. Six months backpacking in Europe – France, England, Spain, Italy, Hungary. Nothing could stop me. I had discovered spirituality and was searching for answers to quench the thirst inside my soul. Everywhere I went I met spiritual people who helped to guide me in my quest. I wanted to study the world’s religions, and Judaism was the last on my list. I decided to stop telling people that I was Jewish. After months of travelling, I started to feel that Europe didn’t possess the answers I was looking for, and decided to go to the Far East. There I could find the truth. The only thing that kept me from attempting to hitch to In- PHOTOGRAPHS: BIGSTOCKPHOTO; MORGUEFILE.COM FINDING THE