Jewish Life Digital Edition November 2013 | Page 16

THE THING ABOUT BEING HUMAN IS THERE IS ALWAYS THE TEMPTATION TO SACRIFICE WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN ORDER TO BE POPULAR OR SUCCESSFUL, AND I WANTED VERY MUCH TO BE A SUCCESSFUL CRICKETER AND REPRESENT MY COUNTRY. cause you used to share rooms. I didn’t exactly blend in with my red hair, freckles, and a name like Mandy. It took guts to practise Judaism in that environment. I am sure people did talk behind my back, so it was difficult at times.” Team sports in SA attract mostly nonJews, so he also knew he would most likely be the odd man out in most sports he played. However, whether the team travelled or not, he always tried to keep kosher. “I took food with me and if I was somewhere like Cape Town for a match, I would arrange to go to Shabbat at someone’s home, but team dinners were always an issue. I did manage eventually to organise a fridge in the hotel rooms, so I could bring my food with me.” Yachad also says he knew it was wrong to obey some laws and not others. He played on Shabbos but not when there were games on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. He felt that people in the Jewish community looked up to him as a role model because he was a successful sportsman, but didn’t consider giving up until his inner turmoil drove him to it. The problem for Yachad was that if he wanted to play hockey or cricket matches at a high level, it meant playing on Saturdays. “The thing about being human is there is always the temptation to sacrifice what you believe in order to be popular or successful, and I wanted very much to be a successful cricketer and represent my country,” says Yachad. He adds that it’s not only in sport that Jews have to fight for their identity, their values. Work too, he says, is also most times an environment in which an observant Jew has to stand up for his rights. “I worked as a partner in a well-known law firm in Joburg for 14 years, and it was also challenging. When I left and joined Peregrine Holdings (where he is an executive director), I stated in my employment contract that I won’t work on Shabbos or Jewish holidays. Yachad also played hockey for South Africa, and gave up playing provincial and league hockey. However, he continued to play league hockey matches which were held on a Sunday. “Sport was a huge part of my life for the better part of 15 years. When I was thinking about giving up,