Jasmine's Place Issue No. 10 - March/April 2014 | Page 17

IF SOMEONE ASKED YOU TO DESCRIBE YOURSELF, WHAT WOULD YOU SAY? Perhaps you might list a series of facts; name, age, job title. Or physical attributes; height, hair, colour, body shape. Maybe you’d describe your skills and hobbies; likes to cook, good at art, expert knitter. Cook Briggs and her daughter, Isabel Briggs, during World War II. It defines four pairs of qualities and uses psychometric testing (in oter words, a survey of carefully constructed questions) to assess where each respondent falls within the 16 possible combinations. But who we are goes much deeper than that. To truly understand someone, you need to know their character. Character is not just how we perceive ourselves, though that comes into it, Instead it is the combination of psychological features that make up our very nature – the core facts of who we are as individuals. The four pairs are: Introversion (i) /Extraversion; This looks at where you get your energy and your focus lies. Sensing(s)/Intuition (N): This is based on whether you prefer to be pragmatic and look simply at facts, or to interpret them and add meaning. Thinking (T)/Feeling(F): This applies to decision making, and whether logic and consistency trump the people and circumstances involved. Judging (J)/Perceiving (P): This looks at how you deal with the outside world, either getting things decided or leaving them open to change. Finding out about our characters is important for one simple reason; because knowledge is power. When we understand ourselves, we are better equipped to manage our behaviours, to reduce stress and ultimately, to improve well-being. Which is not only good for us, but or those around us. So how do we get started? INTROVETS VS EXTROVERTS There are a number of tools that various psychologists over the years have developed in order to help us analyse, categorise and understand our characters more fully. One useful and widely used analytic structure is the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. Developed by Katherine . “Whatever the circumstances of your life, the understanding of type can make your perceptions clearer, your judgements sounder, and your life close to your heart’s desire.” JASMINE'S PLACE 17 17