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Narcissists: In second life or real life is this a good thing and when is crossing the line. Princess Rufus outtake. The odds of you knowing a person in which has narcissism are very high. If you are on a social media site, the chances of you coming in contact with one of these people are greater than you think. Oddly enough these people are very wise as well as they are smart, confident and articulate. They can make you smile and laugh, They will keep you on your feet, the first time you met, they probably charmed the pants off of you , or if you have gotten in to a relationship with one of them they will lead you to believe that they are always the person that has be hurt in their past relationships. Later on after their foot is in the door and you began to notice something is different. They began to compare you to others. They become clingy and needy more depending you to boost their ego. They hit you with questions like why do you not spend time, why is everything else more important than I am to you. You spend more time pleasing people more than spend time with me. As you continue into the relationship with these types of people you will find it hard to cope with their mental issues. Yet what I find is so sad that they do not believe that they have a mental condition in which is very serious and oddly enough they man not even know how to even spell it. These people are everywhere even on the grid. It’s a deep and all but certain truth about narcissistic personalities that to meet them is to love them, but to know them well is to find them unbearable. Confidence quickly curdles into arrogance; smarts turn to smugness, charm turns to smarm. They will talk endlessly about themselves, but when they ask about you — well, never mind, because they never do.