It's Your Future - Digital Education Edition v1 | Page 29

RULE #4 Learn to appreciate your family D id you know that you were placed within your family for a reason? Yes that crazy bunch of people who sometimes drive you crazy still serve a purpose in your life. Do not curse the ground from which you come from. To speak ill of your family — wishing death, hurt and destruction upon your family is not cool. We all have challenging individuals in our family. When you really think about it, who doesn’t have a family with some type of dysfunction? Even the family that looks totally perfect on the outside has flaws. You are not alone if you think your family is “messed up.” Some of you may not even know what the concept of “family” means. Please realize this: your family is the vehicle through which you arrived here. There is always something to be learned from your family unit. Learn to value your parents, parent, or guardian. Focus on the good in them despite all their flaws*. It may be a challenge for you to respect your parents. Your father and mother may have made some decisions that you don't agree with, but learn to respect and honor them. * This does not include abusive situations. In no way is abuse whether physical or sexual ever okay. If you are in a dangerous situation, go and TALK to someone you trust immediately. GET HELP. 13