Issue No.21 - Polo De’Marco Magazine Issue No.21 - Dubai Edition | Page 172

up its borders to the world. Confucius has helped keep China true to its history and culture while bringing in some of these so-called “Western” ideas, which I believe is just forward thinking and the way the world will go. younger, you now manage and represent other footballers (soccer players) through your own international sports agency based in London. How does Confucianism influence you as a modern day football agent? Q8. Confucianism is over 2500 years old, and yet still widely practiced, based on ideas which emphasize the importance of family and social harmony, rather than on an otherworldly source of spiritual attainment. What is the most important aspect of these fundamentals that you think can help society evolve today in this fast-paced age of technology in a global world? JK: Confucianism has always affected me in everything I do in football. When I used to play, I would try to lead by example as Confucius believed you should. I showed respect to my elders and to authority such as the referee as Confucius would have wanted me to. There are many ways I could tell you how Confucius has affected how I played, but it is true he has also had an effect on my business philosophy. For one, I show respect to my young players as I do not know what they may achieve in the future and must help them and guide them to their full potential. Another is, I do not waste my time on players with the wrong mind-set, even if they have the natural ability to play well. If they do not conduct themselves well off the pitch, I do not want to be connected with them. And, most obviously, I conduct my business with the best interests of my player(s), the club, and the football industry in mind. JK: Since Confucius lived 2500 years ago approximately, it is impossible to draw on his sayings in relation to the pace at which technology is advancing. Being a man of tradition, in my opinion, he would find the extreme pace at which we are developing quite worrying. I’d imagine he would fear us losing our moral values to materialistic gain for reasons of vanity. However, technology and the world becoming more global come hand in hand. We can now communicate across the globe in seconds. I believe he would welcome that. As Confucius said, “Isn’t it nice to have friends from afar”. For me, Confucianism is not about how we develop technology, but what we do with it. For example, in the use of social media. Social media is a fantastic way to keep in touch with your friends and family as you travel and grow, and to keep track of milestones in your life. It should not be used as a tool to show off, to seek validation or to abuse others. Q9. Tell us a bit more about your “awakening” that occurred while watching the 2008 Beijing Summer Olympics? JK: As I mentioned previously, this moment was one of great significance in my life. It was then when I realised I am more than myself, and that I was selfish and small-minded to hide away from who I am and what I can do with my role. Confucianism is more than just me, more than just an ancient family. It is a tool for the people of the world to be able to understand more about themselves and life. Q10. Having previously had aspirations to be a professional football player and several clubs interested in you when you were Q11. You have declared yourself as a supporter of feminism. There are some perceived misconceptions regarding Confucianism opposing feminism. Explain please this common misunderstanding. JK: There is no misunderstanding when it comes to what Confucius said about women. I have often heard people blame a man who was teaching around 2550 years ago for the ignorance of some people and lack of respect for women today. How you can blame someone who isn’t alive to defend themselves or revise their thinking for other people’s narrow- mindedness is unacceptable. The Analects and the stories of Confucius are for us to critically analyse and find out what we agree and disagree with, to think outside of the box, and even think beyond what he said. I myself am happy to call myself a feminist as I do believe in gender equality and equality of opportunity for everyone, no matter what race, gender or economic background. I, as a representative of my family, condemn anyone who uses Confucius as an excuse for their own ignorance.