Issue No.21 - Polo De’Marco Magazine Issue No.21 - Dubai Edition | Page 166

Q3. What was your first experience with the Analects? And, at what age did you become aware of your personal historic significance as the 79th generation direct descendant of Confucius? JK: My heritage is something that I have been aware of since I can remember. People have always told me exactly who I am and what my role and responsibilities are; however, they all perceive the role and responsibility of the 79th descendant in different ways. The pressure of trying to please everyone made me feel very weak and small when I was younger, as I knew I couldn’t satisfy everyone. I would often wish I was someone else without all these eyes watching and judging me. This feeling lasted until the Beijing Olympics in 2008. During the opening ceremony, there was a sequence where many of Confucius’ analects were quoted. Seeing the importance of Confucius on such a big stage brought me to tears. An entire nation whose culture was based on my relative’s wisdom had an entire world seeing his thoughts in such dramatic way that it made me realise I was thinking selfishly and at a low level. It was then that I realised the role and responsibility of who I am was my decision, and that trying to please everyone in the long term would help no one. Regarding the analects, I had always known about them but it was my mother who hired a teacher to come to my house after school to read and talk about what we thought each analect meant. Q4. Confucianism at its core holds that human beings are fundamentally good, and teachable, improvable, and perfectible by personal work and through communal endeavor. Confucian thought focuses on the cultivation of virtue in a morally organised world. What do you personally perceive is the greatest challenge for people in maintaining and striving for goodness today? JK: When studying the Analects, I learned that there was more than one way to interpret Confucius’ sayings, and more than one lesson to every story. People these days are often force fed answers and thoughts that are not their own and they then choose a side because it is easy, not because it is right. Being able to know what is right and wrong should be natural since we as humans have the ability to think for ourselves and to critically analyse. The greatest challenge for people in a modern society in maintaining and striving for goodness is keeping true to themselves and to their core values. They should not be swayed by bad influences or their