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INTERVIEW the bookshop. “If I hear that little voice telling me to do something, I always listen to it,” he says. The bookshop owners agreed to match his police force pay, and off he went down a new path. In fact, less than two years later, when the lease came up for renewal on the shop, it was the 21 year-old Den who approached the bank for a loan to buy the freehold of the building. “My own experience in the bank meant I knew how to present a business plan – and it got me the loan” he says. Then it was a case of using his youthful enthusiasm again, to help revive the shop, re-naming it Ramsdens and adding gifts and other products to the book offering. Two years after that, the partners in the business retired, and it was off to the bank again for Den, for a further loan to buy them out. So by the tender age of 23, he owed the bank a grand total of £100,000 (at an eye-watering interest rate of 19% in the mid-1960s). Some years later, he borrowed again to buy another freehold shop just across the way. This became Den’s Giftbox, a sister business to Den’s Toybox. The responsibility of running two shops would be enough for most people – but not Den, who all the time was continuing his studies into hypnotherapy. Mind over Matter He traces his interest in the power of the mind back to his teens, when his mum, a long-time spiritualist, took him to see a spiritual healer because he had an eye problem. “A week after seeing this woman, the problem with my eye had gone, and from that time, I became fascinated with trying to discover how things like this worked”. He met hypnotists of various kinds and ended up studying during the 1960s with Gil Boyne, an American widely regarded as a pioneer in modern hypnotherapy. From there, he began practicing hypnotherapy one day a week whilst still running the two shops. He has no time for stage hypnotists – mainly because he knows the power of it, and how it can be misused, especially with susceptible people. “It’s well-known that a certain percentage of people are much more suggestible than others, and they’re the ones who tend to be singled out in these stage acts” he says. Den prefers to use the power of hypnotic suggestion in more positive ways, to help people overcome fears and phobias, quit destructive habits and even deal with long-standing health conditions. Whilst he will never guarantee that hypnotherapy will work for people, he has seen some remarkable results, such as the woman with a long-standing and very severe case of eczema, which cleared up within a week. Another client with botched facial surgery that had led to paralysis was back to normal within months. “Nobody really understands the mind, but it has such power over the body” says Den, “and if you believe that, there are almost no limits to what you can achieve”. “Every time I say I’m going to pack up, something a bit unusual comes along to spark my interest again. I really do love it when you can make a difference to www.visitilife.com 25