Island Life Magazine Ltd August/September 2015 | Page 23

man of spirit Den Clare: INTERVIEW H e came across to the Isle of Wight on his first away posting as a rookie copper in the early 1960s – and mainlander Den Clare loved the place so much that he stayed put and made it his home. More than half a century later, at 73, he shows no sign of slowing down or losing his insatiable curiosity for life and people - as we discovered when we caught up with him. Writing a CV for Den Clare would pose an interesting challenge: he’s been a banker, a policeman, a bookkeeper and a shop owner. He’s fascinated by spiritual matters and the power of the mind, and is well-known and highly regarded as a hypnotherapist. A distinct childlike streak is revealed in his love of toys (which he collects avidly), the enjoyment he gets from being photographed with some of the celebrities he drives around during the Isle of Wight Festival – and his passion for cars, especially those of the speedy, open-topped variety. So what are the roots to this complex and multi-faceted personality? Well, he grew up in Aldershot, Hampshire, in a very loving but somewhat repressive household. “My parents were very shy so my memories are of always being told to keep quiet, turn the music down, that kind of thing” he recalls. “My dad worked very “I tended to spend a lot of time on my own, which I suppose made me quite introverted and thoughtful” hard as a chef and would always be tired out when he came home, so I never did much with him. I tended to spend a lot of time on my own, which I suppose made me quite introverted and thoughtful”. “I guess that may explain why I now love nothing better than driving my car with the top down and my music blaring!” he laughs. He also reflects on how different life is today for his six grandchildren, who are all “full of life and confidence”. Having always been top of the class at primary school, Den says he didn’t do quite so well at his strict grammar school, and came out with just the “bare necessities” of a handful of O-levels. Banking on success With only a few career options open to him at 16, he chose to go into the bank, and joined Lloyds in Farnborough in 1957. “In those days, the bank manager was god – feared and respected by everyone,” says Den. “I can still recall my first day, and my fear of having to use the telephone”. The fear didn’t last long though – www.visitilife.com 23