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themselves that the effect of trying to run from, or suppress, negative feelings was to leave them feeling permanently on edge and therefore vulnerable to returning to addictive behaviours that had helped them avoid feelings in the past. Playing the DVD of Thich Nhat Hanh on “Coping with Emotional Storms” seems to have been especially helpful to all participants, bar one in the group. The message contained in this talk was simple: Our feelings are not our enemy, they are a part of us that needs care and attention. And that if we stay present to our feelings they naturally transform and pass. For each participant, different feelings may cause distress and threaten to overwhelm them. In this course we focused on painful emotions like hurt, sadness, anger. I think in future courses we would recommend focussing on feelings and urges broadly fitting the description of “cravings” which can arise in the presence or absence of distress. This is an aspect of relapse prevention that has been very well developed by Alan Marlatt. For this reason (and many other good reasons) we would recommend making contact with Marlatt and his Colleagues in Seattle Washington, seeking permission to incorporate his exercises for “coping with urges and cravings”. 249