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Making matters a bit more complicated, sati is actually cultivated by, and necessary for, both concentration and mindfulness meditation techniques. That is, we need to know where the mind is to concentrate on either a single object or many arising objects. Since the mind is actively engaged with a wider range of experiences during mindfulness meditation, it can be said that sati is more deliberately developed in this particular practice. During mindfulness or insight meditation, the meditator can always return to concentration practice to stabilize attention if he or she becomes lost in daydreams and discursive thinking. In this regard, concentration practice (samatha) facilitates mindfulness or insight (vipassana) practice. Lovingkindness Meditation: Lovingkindness is the emotional quality associated with mindfulness. Translated from the Pali word, metta, lovingkindness meditation can be a form of concentration meditation. The practitioner returns attention again and again to phrases such as “May I and all beings be safe, happy, healthy, and live with ease.” This technique allows the person to soften into and allow arising experience to be just as it is. It is cultivating the intention to be loving and kind, rather than superimposing warm feelings on our moment-to-moment experience. The emotional flavor of affectionate awareness typically follows our kindly intentions. Lovingkindness (feeling safe, peaceful, healthy, and free from suffering) keeps the function of mindfulness practice clear in the mind of the practitioner. It is a quality of mind that ideally pervades the other meditation practices. Therefore, while practicing concentration meditation, we work to receive mental distractions with openheartedness rather than sternness; when practicing mindfulness or insight meditation, we greet all mental contents like welcome visitors. When our sati (mindfulness) is strong, we can choose to switch fluidly among metta (lovingkindness), samatha (concentration), or vipassana (mindfulness or insight) practices, as needed, even in a single sitting of meditation. For example, if dealing with psychological trauma, we can notice when we are overwhelmed and can choose to redirect 24