Introduction to Mindfulness_349810_bookemon_ebook.pdf Coaching and Practising Mindfulness | Page 213

- - - - - 212 breathing and keep ourselves firmly grounded in the present moment. Emotions are impermanent, they do pass. By surrounding the emotion with mindful awareness, the emotion loses much of its power and energy. When it passes back into our subconscious, it will not be as strong. It has taken a “bath of mindfulness” and next time it comes up it will be a little weaker. We have survived emotions before, and each time we do, we grow strong. Each time we experience them and survive, we also grow in our confidence to look after the part of our mind that is capable of feeling intense pain. We are afraid of the elements in our unconscious that feel intense fear, despair, anger etc. We are so afraid that we set up blocks within our mind so that these feelings won’t arise. We do this without being aware that we are doing it. Every time we sense these feelings might arise, we get busy. We keep our minds occupied so as not to feel whatever we have locked into “mental basements”. And we fill our conscious “living rooms” with as much distraction as possible. But of course hidden pain and hurt feelings do arise despite our best efforts to suppress them. In our dreams and sometimes in our waking lives, we are made aware of strong emotions that we carry within us. Repression of feelings also sets up a situation of bad circulation between our conscious and our deeper minds. We suffer symptoms, sometimes they are physical, other times repression of our feelings can lead to symptoms of mental illness. The solu F