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Week 6 We began with sitting meditation. There was very active engagement with this exercise by the group. Members tuned in very quickly to how they were feeling and shared this openly afterwards. We moved directly into yoga practice, outside in the garden, and returned to group room where people shared any changes they noticed in how they were now feeling. The idea was to give them an experience of the “impermanence of feelings”: Feelings come and go; it can be enough to notice them, to acknowledge that whatever I am feeling is simply what I’m feeling, to continue to bring my attention back to the present moment, through focusing on the breath, through engaging in some activity, and to notice how feelings shift and change. With emotions that are intense and painful, it was also important to learn specific coping techniques. For this reason we would be showing a DVD on “Coping with emotional storms” by Thich Nhat Hahn in the second half of the session. Identifying key situations, events, that can provoke a relapse into old thinking and behaviour patterns Different situations, events and emotions can set off a chain reaction that leads to relapse. Each person needs to know what sets them off and to take evasive action before it’s too late. It is helpful to know one’s personal “relapse signature”, i.e. those warning signs that tell me I may be moving towards danger. The above examples revealed a range of behaviours, thoughts and strong feelings (some which appeared to come out of nowhere) that pe