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Mindfulness Practice
While it can be disturbing to notice how frequently we are mindless,
and how much of our lives we wish away, there is also good news:
mindfulness can be cultivated. Just as we can improve physical fitness
through regular physical exercise, we can develop mindfulness
through deliberate mental practices.
Mindfulness practices all involve some form of meditation. Especially
in the West, misconceptions about meditation practice abound. It
may therefore be helpful to examine some of the most common
misunderstandings.
Not Having a Blank Mind:
While some concentration practices are designed to empty the mind
of thought, this is not an aim of mindfulness practice. Nor do we
wish to become stupid, or lose our analytical abilities. Instead,
mindfulness practice involves training the mind to be aware of what it
is doing at all times, including being aware that we are thinking when
we think.
Not Becoming Emotionless:
Many people secretly hope that mindfulness practice will relieve them
of the burden of emotion. Especially when in distress, the fantasy of
becoming emotionless can be quite appealing. In reality, mindfulness
practice often has quite the opposite effect. Because we practice
noticing the contents of the mind, we come to notice our emotions
more fully and vividly. Our ability to recognize how we feel increases
as we relinquish normal defences, such as distracting ourselves from
discomfort with entertainment or eating.
Not Withdrawing from Life:
Because most meditation practices were originally refined by monks,
nuns, and hermits, people often assume that they involve
withdrawing from living a full, interpersonally rich life. While there
are certainly benefits to be derived from practicing mindfulness in a
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