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Positive elements in your life are experienced with greater appreciation; and in the stillness that develops through mindfulness practice, creative solutions can emerge to guide you in responding to challenging dilemmas. (DEORA) Mindfulness is a way of paying attention to, and seeing clearly whatever is happening in our lives . It will not eliminate life's pressures, but it can help us respond to them in a calmer manner that benefits our heart, head, and body. It helps us recognize and step away from habitual, often unconscious emotional and physiological reactions to everyday events. It provides us with a scientifically researched approach to cultivating clarity, insight, and understanding. Practicing mindfulness allows us to be fully present in our life and work, and improve our quality of life. An important aspect of mindfulness is “remembering.” This does not refer to memory of past events. Rather, it means remembering to be aware and pay attention, highlighting the importance of intention in mindfulness practice. Each moment we remind ourselves: “Remember—be aware!” But “mindfulness” means more than being passively aware, or being aware for awareness’ sake. The Buddhist scholar, John Dunne (2007) has pointed out that awareness, attention, and remembering (sati) are present when a sniper, with malice in his heart, takes aim at an innocent victim. Obviously this is not what we’re trying to cultivate as psychotherapists, nor is it the goal of Buddhist psychology. Rather, the purpose of mindfulness in its ancient context is to eliminate needless suffering by cultivating insight into the workings of the mind and the nature of the material world. The mindfulness practitioner is actively working with states of mind in order to abide peacefully in the midst of whatever happens. ‘Mindfulness’ is a hot topic in Western psychology: increasingly recognized as an effective way to reduce stress, increase self- 13