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you have not really changed anything; you are simply letting your breath flow more naturally. As long as your breathing feels pleasant, you know you are doing something right. You are not trying to change anything; you are simply taking time to bring your attention back to your breath. You do not have to struggle or make an effort. If you do, you will disrupt the natural flow of your breath and notice yourself becoming uneasy. What you are trying to do, as best you can, is to simply be with your breath and allow yourself to slow down and enjoy the present moment. By bringing our mind into the present moment, we achieve mindfulness. When we bring the mind home in this way, we also become more aware of our body. If we continue to practice mindful breathing, we can find ourselves easing back into our bodies in a very short space of time. We begin to feel more connected, more grounded, and also more alert to all that’s happening in and around us. Breathing is the bridge to the body. Attending deliberately to our breathing helps to anchor our attention in the present moment, and gives us a platform from which we can observe the changing patterns of our thoughts and feelings, as they move and shift from one concern to another, from one sensation to another. It is important to note what comes up for you when you slow down in this way, and then to let it go and see what happens next. Because our mind so naturally wanders, it requires practice to be mindful. There are many different exercises that can guide your practice and some may suit you more than others. The following are a sample of the exercises we used most frequently in the Deora course. Basic Breathing Exercises Exercise 1: In/Out The first breathing exercise is “In/Out”. Very simply, we choose to pay attention to the movement of the breath in and out of our body. We may notice the sensation of air passing in and out of our nostrils or we may keep our attention on the sensations of our tummies 121