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“My dad and grandpa have al- ways told me to put others first - in basketball and life,” Colton Fraley sated. “They always told me if I was selfish it wasn’t going to pay off in the long run. That same advice has taught me how to play together as a team player, play my role, and do the tings I need to do to help the team - instead of me, me, me. Like Father, Like Son Shannon Fraley was one of the star players on his dad’s 1986 state champion- ship team and, to this day, credits his dad for all the basketball knowledge he ever learned and knows. “There is not a day that goes by where I don’t find myself saying the same things to my son out on the basketball court that my dad said to me over 30 years ago,” Shannon Fraley laughed. “Basically, everything I know about basketball came downstream from my dad. Me and John have just tried to keep that coaching tradition alive and pass down the same wisdom we got from our dad.” “My dad told me and I tell my sons the same things,” Shannon Fraley said. “Stay true to the fundamentals. Continue to work hard and just try to outwork the next guy.” Losing Is Tough Winning coaches love to win, but they have a tough time dealing with losses. And all the Fraleys admitted dealing with losses after- wards was never a good family trait. “I absolutely love sitting back and watching my sons coach because I don’t have to do the daily grind,” Dave Fraley stated. “I don’t have to listen to problems on the team or problems from people who are unhappy, and I don’t have to go to practice unless I want to. So I like that and then when the games are over - win or lose - I don’t take it home with me like when I was coaching.” “That was serious business when we got beat and I didn’t handle it well as a coach,” Dave Fraley laughed. “Never did mature.” For John Fraley losing is also tough, but his dad has helped him trough the process after some tough losses in the past. “We all three have to have our own time alone after big losses,” John Fraley laughed. “We are all head coaches, in our minds, and we all carry those losses like we are all head coaches, so we have to have our time alone to get through it and get over it.” Providing Quality of Life for Amputees for Over 30 Years Conventio Suction & Elev nal Vacuum Suspe ated nsion W e A ccept M edicAre , M edicAid & M ost p rivAte i nsurAnces 606-451-0668 1005 W est C olumbia s treet s omerset , KY 10 • I n T ouch with S outhern K entucky  www.comfortforamputees.com W e Are contrActed With the v eterAns A dMinistrAtion Visit our website: www.comfortforamputees.com Like Us On M arch 2020