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Understanding Self Awareness March 1 each year has been designated Self-Inju- ry Awareness Day. This day was set eighteen years ago in 2002. What do we know about Self-In- jury? This is a topic that is not discussed on a regular basis. Self-harm, or self-injury, is the act of intentionally inflicting pain and damage to one’s own body. Self- harm most often refers to cutting, burning, scratch- ing, and other forms of external injury; it can, however, also include in- ternal or emotional harm, such as drinking too much alcohol or using to many drugs or participating in unsafe sex. Self-injury can be defined as a coping mechanism. This coping mechanism can enable a person to deal with in- tense emotional situations by creating a calming sen- sation. The injury itself can validate a person’s feelings by creating real physical pain. This physi- cal pain may be easier for the person to cope with than the hidden emotional pain. Self-injury has an im- mediate effect that creates immediate relief from the emotional pain. Howev- er, the physical pain is temporary – the emotion- al issues are still present. Overtime, self-injury can become an automatic response to every day stress. This may result in the self-injury becoming more frequent and severe. Self-injury affects people regardless of age, gender, sexual orientation, ethnic- ity or personal strength. Any person can self-harm, but the largest percentage of people who engage in these type behaviors are teenagers (17.2%) and young adults (13.4%). Parents if you find out that your child is self-injuring you may have sever- al emotions. You may experience anger, shock, guilt, worry, confusion. One thing to remember is don’t panic or over-react. The first thing to keep in mind is that Self-injury is a coping mechanism. It is non-suicidal behavior. And, it doesn’t necessar- ily mean your child has a mental illness. Chil- dren and youth struggle with home life, school, peer pressures, bullying, belonging, and in many other areas. Children and youth do not share with parents what they truly are feeling or what they are struggling with in their lives. Signs that someone may be hurting themselves include: • Having frequent cuts, bruises, or scars • Wearing long sleeves or pants even in hot weather • Making excuses about injuries • Having sharp objects around for no clear reason Mental health counseling or therapy can also help by teaching the person: • Problem-solving skills • New ways to cope with strong emotions • Better relationship skills • Ways to strengthen self-esteem Be aware that although self-injury is non-suicidal behavior, the emotional dis- tress that leads to self-injury can also lead to thoughts of suicide. If you know of some- one needing assistance with self-injury please contact our clinics for additional infor- mation or to schedule an appointment. The number is 1-800-954-4782. Respectfully Submitted, Beverly Loy, LPCC CEO The Adanta Group Resources: LifeSigns: Self-Injury Guidance and Network Support Medline Plus National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) Adanta Community Mental Health Center is Ready to Help! If you are searching for help or would like more infor- mation about services, call toll free 1.800.954.4782 x 0, visit Adanta’s website at www.adanta.org, or Adanta’s Facebook page at www.facebook.com/The.Adanta. Group. Adanta has been serving the Lake Cumberland area since 1967, delivering quality services to meet the needs of the people served. “Enhancing Lives” is the Purpose of the organization, and serves as the beacon for being a great community partner and resource through its services, programs, outreach, and presence in the Lake Cumberland and surrounding counties.** Adanta is CARF accredited in Adult, Child, & Adoles- cent Outpatient Treatment; Mental Health and Alcohol and Other Drugs; Adult Mental Health Crisis Inter- vention and Crisis Stabilization; and Adult, Child, and Adolescent Mental Health and Alcohol and Other Drugs; and Prevention. **Outpatient Clinics are located in the counties of Adair, Barren, Casey, Clinton, Green, McCreary, Pulaski, Russell, Taylor, Wayne, and Woodford. 26 • I n T ouch with S outhern K entucky  Enhancing Lives M arch 2020