CHAPTER III
Appendix 2b: „Am I tolerant and aware of my child’s choices?”- questionnaire.
Dear Parent!
Do a test that will help you realise what is you attitude towards your own child, towards
his/her decisions and the level of your tolerance towards the actions and attitudes your child
takes, his/her behaviours and achievements.
The test is anonymous and it is not designed to judge you. Its aim is to make you think,
show the sreas which are your strong points and those you should work on in order to
effectively support your child this making him/her independent in each sphere of life.
There are four possible answers for every question.
1- NEVER
2- SOMETIMES
3- OFTEN
4- ALWAYS
1. Do you like helping others?
1
2
3
4
2. Can you talk about your feelings?
1
2
3
4
3. Are you a tolerant person?
1
2
3
4
4. Do you think you are a good company for your child to play, have fun and spend time
together?
1
2
3
4
5. Do you make sure the atmosphere at home is pleasant and calm?
1
2
3
4
6. Have you given up any bad habits for your child’s sake?
1
2
3
4
7. Do you think that your child is more important than a professional career?
1
2
3
4
8. Do you think a strict parent is a good parent?
1
2
3
4
8. Do you give up on everything for you child’s sake?
1
2
3
4
9. Do you give your child everything and always what he/she wants?
1
2
3
4
10. Do you keep your promises?
1
2
3
4
11. Do you let your child to make decisions?
1
2
3
4
12. Do you get easily angry when your child’s decisions are different than you expect?
1
2
3
4
13. Do you often shout at your child?
1
2
3
4
14. Do you often ctiticise your child?
1
2
3
4