insideKENT Magazine Issue 96 - March 2020 | Page 148

EDUCATION DON'T WAIT FOR A CRISIS: THE IMPORTANCE OF EARLY INTERVENTION IN CHILD MENTAL HEALTH SPECIAL FEATURE IN ASSOCIATION WITH DARE TO DIFFER AND WEST KENT MIND THE RECENT INCREASE IN THE AWARENESS OF MENTAL HEALTH HAS PROVIDED A GREATER EMPHASIS AND UNDERSTANDING OF THE ISSUES YOUNG PEOPLE FACE IN SOCIETY. WITH THIS COMES A GREATER EMPATHY, MORE AWARENESS AND SUPPORT FOR THOSE EXPERIENCING MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES. THIS IS GREAT BUT… HOW DO YOU KNOW THE SIGNS TO LOOK FOR IN YOUR CHILD/YOUNG PERSON? HOW DO YOU ACCESS SUPPORT? AND HOW DO YOU KNOW WHERE TO GET SUPPORT IF NEEDED? “With Public Health England reporting that 50% of mental health issues are established by the age of 14 and 75% by the age of 24, enabling our children to talk openly about their thoughts and feelings is crucial.” West Kent Mind. West Kent Mind acknowledges that whilst the sources of stress for our children are not hugely different to our own, it is widely agreed that children are under more pressure than ever before. Whether the pressure is emotional (including social media, peer pressure or bullying), environmental (including academic pressure), physical (unhealthy sleep patterns, poor diet, lack of routine) or life changes (changing schools, family relationship breakdown or bereavement), 148 everyone has a limit to what they can healthily cope with and this differs for everyone. As parents, we tend to focus on the behavioural manifestations, which we may interpret or see as stroppy behaviour, monosyllabic responses, a lack of focus on school work, etc, when instead we need to be more aware of what might be causing this behaviour. As adults it is crucial how we listen, respond and validate our children’s feelings, without undermining their significance. Part and parcel of this is also being aware, as parents, of our own judgements and preconceived perceptions. Early intervention begins at home and keeping channels of communication open will help to ensure that children and young people feel able to talk to you when things get tough. Enabling positive and supportive conversations and feeling heard enables Early identification is key to actioning support early on when a young person needs it, it helps action support before it hits crisis point and can often lead to the young person’s mental health significantly improving vs declining if left for a longer period of time. a young person to feel that their concerns are being taken seriously. As parents, we need to be aware of changes in behaviour or patterns, no matter how small, that may indicate something is wrong. According to Dare to Differ, behaviours are a signifier of responses to actions, environments and emotions, and they can help us to notice early changes and signs that something is not quite right. It is important to distinguish between general developmental stages of behaviour and behaviours that signify something else; but reassure yourself that you know your young person best. Trust your instincts and act on those early signs of behaviour changes. Every young person is different and you are best placed to know if it is an unusual behaviour.