insideKENT Magazine Issue 84 - March 2019 | Page 88

MOTHER’SDAY GIVE MUM WHAT SHE DESERVES CONT. FULL THE ‘MUM JAR’ Get all the children to write on little notes and place them in a jar. Include things like reasons why they love mum, favourite memories, pictures that they have drawn for her, poems, or things to do together. Aim for 52 minimum and 365 if you can manage it, and give mum a special note every week or day of the forthcoming year. REMEMBER YOUR MUM Mother’s Day is a day to celebrate and honour your mum, and it is especially difficult to watch friends, family members or even strangers celebrating their mothers when your own is far away or no longer here. Instead of mourning, try to celebrate your mum, remember the good times and honour all the happy memories. Play favourite songs, visit favourite 88 places, share photos, videos and memories with your own children, eat her favourite dinner and have a day of using her favourite sayings and using her anecdotes to bring her memory alive. Remind yourself that her greatest gift was you. SAY THANK YOU AND I LOVE YOU Five simple words that mean more than any others: ‘Thank You’ and ‘I Love You’. Mean them, say them and demonstrate them, often, not just on Mother’s Day, and make the most rewarding job in the world even more special. Mums, we salute you.