insideKENT Magazine Issue 72 - March 2018 | Seite 138

CHARITY OASIS DOMESTIC ABUSE SERVICE cont. What is the charity’s history? Oasis has been delivering services to people experiencing domestic abuse in Kent for 24 years. Our charity began with a handful of dedicated people opening a refuge service in 1994. Today, Oasis delivers services to adults and children both in refuge and in the community and we are building a dedicated approach to not only intervening, but also preventing these issues in the future. We would like to see an end to the issue which we work for, and every child we teach about healthy relationships may be a step closer to this aim. We are overwhelmed by the support we receive from the community and are glad to see that word of mouth about our work often precedes us. Throughout our history we have striven to end not only the consequences but also the causes of domestic abuse and with your continued support we will do so until the violence stops. How can our readers become volunteers? We have a range of roles including volunteering in our boutique charity shop, as a peer mentor and even representing Oasis as an ambassador. To find out more about volunteering at Oasis, please email volunteer@oasisdaservice.org, or telephone Dee for a chat on 07702 201352. 138 Do you have any fundraising events coming up? We have a fun quiz on 28th March 2018, and another on 17th October 2018 at Grosvenor Casino, Westwood Cross, Thanet. Tickets are £10 and include a hot buffet. To book, please telephone 01843 579999. Also, we are having a charity golf day on Friday 15th June 2018 at North Foreland Golf Club – please see the poster (pictured) ]for details on how to book. What does the future hold? We aspire to a world free from abusive relationships and we will continue to provide a range of holistic services to those affected by domestic abuse – men, women and children. We welcome the recognition in recent legislation of coercive control as a criminal offence and we will work to raise awareness of the fact that controlling behaviour is a high impact and high-risk form of domestic abuse. Over the year ahead, we will have a real focus on intervening even earlier in the lives of children and young people. All research shows that early trauma is deep rooted and the effects intergenerational, plus we have seen repeatedly that by the age of 16 some of our clients’ lives are already extremely complex. Many children do not know what a healthy relationship looks like and we see this as evidence of a need to offer them support before they are impacted still further by the complexities of adult life and those brought about by intimate relationships. www.oasisdaservice.org