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INSIDE HIMALAYAS | NEPAL | TIBET | BHUTAN INSIDE HIMALAYAS | NEPAL | TIBET | BHUTAN The romance of bygone era... A popular activity at the homestays is cooking with the host women. Photo: RMT. perfect. Raja didn’t join me, though. I asked him how he could manage not to eat between 10am and 8pm. He told me that he’d have a snack. In all my years here, I cannot adapt to the Nepali meal schedule. I was so grateful for that midday meal. Together we modified our day’s itinerary. It was leech season and neither of us wanted to get bloody by walking through the jungle to any waterfalls. We’d also both been up watching the World Cup finals the night before, and were happy to take it easy. It wasn’t raining, but it was pretty hot. We decided to stroll through the village. Raja had plenty of stories to tell. We walked through corn plants that were eight feet high, growing next to skinny green beans, potato patches, onions and scarecrows. Raja told me that when it’s time to harvest, all the manpower of the community comes together, moving from field to field collecting the goods. This system is becoming endangered as the young workforce continues to go abroad. We ended up at the family’s local temple, where Raja told me stories of the gods, like Hanuman the flighty 70 monkey. Hanuman forgot which medicinal herb he was urgently tasked to fetch from the hilltop because he was playing with buddies he met along the way. Luckily, he was pretty strong, so he brought the entire hill back to his father so he could pluck the healing herb himself. These stories flowed freely from Raja, stories passed down from his mother and father. In the afternoon we sat with his uncle, the temple caretaker, took some photos, and listened to the quiet. A little later we walked to a viewpoint high above the river that was roaring, swollen, below us, hidden by the thick green leaves of monsoon. We watched a husband and wife team, his distant cousins, adeptly collecting turpentine from pine trees, using an intricate system of funnels and slash marks in the tree bark. Raja said next time I come I can bring some friends, beers and a picnic and while away the afternoon here. I agreed that was a fine idea. It was wonderfully calming to be out of Kathmandu. On the walk home we met more of Raja’s cousins. A group of bubbly kids came by and gave us candies because it was one of the little ladies’ www.insidehimalayas.com | By Royal Mountain Travel birthdays. We met the yoga teacher, his uncle, who would teach me the next day. He stopped in for a tea on the terrace. The president of the local homestay committee, another cousin, stopped by for tea too. We sat on small stools as the sun set over greater Bhaktapur. Hunch-backed 78-year- old Grandpa came home from the temple, and Raja’s incredibly friendly father, a retired police officer, joined us too. It was nearing 8pm and every other household nearby was preparing dinner. The whole of Bastola Gaon smelled aromatic. It came to me in a wave again, the family aspect. “So, all of these people around us are all related to you, aren’t they?” I asked. ...the delight of tasteful cuisine. Bricks Cafe is a multi-cuisine restaurant located in Lalitpur - offering a wide range of food menu, but prominently renowned for divine Nepalese flavor, which arrives in authentic hospitality. The building of Bricks Cafe was built during the Rana era, and that classical, intimate, warm ambience is still evident today in the attic seating, sun deck couches, rich garden, and shady porch. Please drop by to the Bricks Cafe and comfort your taste buds. We serve every day from 12pm to 10pm. “Yes. Yes they are. They are my uncles, aunties, brothers, cousins. My family. We’re all Bastolas here.” Then we all sat down together on the terrace to his mother’s meal of rice, dal and local greens, complemented by spicy cucumber and sesame pickle. There was a serenity in knowing that everyone, all the Bastolas in this community, were sharing meals together. Kupondole, Lalitpur, Nepal 5521756 [email protected] Login to www.facebook.com/Bricks.Cafe1 for more updates www.insidehimalayas.com | By Royal Mountain Travel 71