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What type of insurance or coverage does your loved one have? Obtain copies of the cards. Does the policy cover post-acute care? Who is in-network and what would your co- pay be? Post-acute providers can answer most of these questions over the phone and help to prevent financial surprises. Make a list of emergency contact numbers, current medications and all the physicians & medical providers that your loved one sees. Be sure to keep this updated and keep a copy with you and on your loved one's fridge. You'd be surprised how often you'll need this and how many services will need a copy. Power of Attorney, Living Will, Advanced Directives, Code Status...and the list goes on. This can seem like a foreign language or a taboo topic but these questions are asked at the door of the hospital and someone must advocate for the patient if they cannot speak for themselves. Take 10 minutes and discuss what your loved one would and would not want if they were not able to speak for themselves. Preparing the legal documents ahead of time will allow you to act on their behalf and carry out their wishes. In an ideal world, we'd relish the idea of discussing these personal matters and could all jump in the car for a fun filled Saturday of touring local care facilities. But the reality is that life is very busy and these discussions are not easy so take a deep breath a tackle one topic at a time. Connect with your local resources and be informed. Hind sight maybe 20/20 but a little preparation will help you and your loved one to see the future with rose colored glasses.  Rebecca Paulie has extensive experience working in the long term care industry. She is a contributing & freelance writer for multiple publications and serves as an advocate for senior related issues within the community. For more information or assistance, please feel free to email at [email protected]. Sign Up for Your Free Digital Version at IndyBoomer.com 23