InBound SA - Lifestyle Volume 3 - Issue 12 | Page 44

GOLF

Fore-get STRESS

BY BYRON LUKAS
YOU ARRIVE FOR RELAXATION, MISS YOUR FIRST SHOT, AND SUDDENLY GOLF FEELS LIKE A MENTAL WORKOUT. THESE SERENE SOUTH AFRICAN COURSES HELP BEGINNERS BREATHE, RESET AND ENJOY THE GAME’ S QUIRKS.

You’ ve swapped your yoga mat for a nine-iron, expecting a calming activity. After your first tee shot almost hit a duck, you realised golf demands more focus than yoga.

Golf challenges your inner peace. The course doesn’ t care about your new gloves, careful setup, or hopeful thoughts. It always finds a way to humble you. That’ s its appeal.
When you’ re standing on the first tee, it’ s not just you versus the ball; it’ s you versus yourself. Every poor swing teaches patience. Every bunker demands surrender. And every perfect putt feels like a celestial reward for not hurling your club into the nearest dam.
Golf also teaches humility. Every mis-hit is an opportunity to laugh at oneself, enjoy a drink, and try again.
And the social side? Golf is oddly bonding. There’ s something about collectively losing balls, counting strokes, and apologising to sand traps that makes strangers feel like lifelong friends. By the end of the round, you may not have a low score, but you’ ll have mastered the art of patience – or at least the art of pretending you did.
SOUTH AFRICA’ S SERENE BEGINNER COURSES
• Arabella Country Estate( Western Cape) – Where the Kogelberg Mountains and Bot River Lagoon remind you that even when you’ re + 12 over par, life remains beautiful.
• Leopard Creek( Mpumalanga) – Bordering Kruger National Park, you might spot elephants mid-swing. That’ s nature’ s way of saying“ calm down.”
• Highland Gate( Dullstroom) – Thin air, wide fairways, and no city noise. It’ s the essence of golf therapy.
Next time you step onto the green, treat golf as your moving meditation or with a touch of swearing. Because in golf, just like in life, the true victory is maintaining calm amidst the chaos. IB
BEGINNER’ S ZEN GOLF TIPS
Don’ t rush your swing: golf isn’ t a race; it’ s a slow dance. Keep snacks in your bag: A hanger ruins focus. Play with patient people( or those with noisecancelling earpods). Remember every golfer once flopped it in front of someone important. Smile, breathe, and blame the wind.
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