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S ince 2008, the Girard-based nonprofit New Blossoms New Life Foundation has provided financial support to 80 couples in Erie, Crawford and Warren counties to help cover the costs of in vitro fertilization (IVF). And, to date, those couples have welcomed a total of 58 children into their families. MAGGIE’S LEGACY Chris and Renea Kovski established New Blossoms New Life Foundation in memory of their daughter, Maggie. Renea gave birth to Maggie in 2005 following IVF, but two years later she passed away in a tragic accident. The Kovskis received an outpouring of financial support from friends and family, which the couple used to establish the foundation as a part of their daughter’s legacy. For a decade, New Blossoms New Life has allowed a growing number of families in northwestern Pennsylvania to experience the same joy that Maggie brought to her family. Recent grant recipients Anthony Hammer and Brienna Richardson- Hammer of North East say they will always be grateful to the Kovskis: “Because of Maggie’s legacy, all these couples have been able to realize their dreams. It’s a beautiful thing.” AN AMAZING GIFT Navigating fertility treatment options can be a difficult journey—and an expensive one. Health care coverage usually does not cover fertility treatments, and couples can deplete their savings on options recommended even before trying IVF, such as intrauterine insemination (IUI). With IVF costs ranging from $10,000 to $15,000 or more if medications aren’t covered by insurance, the treatment is out of reach for many couples. “They’ve given us a miracle,” Richardson-Hammer says. “Without New Blossoms New Life we probably wouldn’t be able to have a family.” “It’s hard to put into words what New Blossoms New Life did for us. It’s been an amazing gift,” says grant recipient Alyssa Layman. She and her husband Scot of Fairview are the parents of 4-year-old twins, Harper and Harrison. “They put their heart and soul into helping these couples. I don’t know if we’d have our children if it wasn’t for them. It’s such a blessing.” CONTINUING THE LEGACY New Blossoms New Life accepts applications and awards grants throughout the year, but it takes a great deal of hard work and dedication to continue to assist couples with the costs of IVF. The foundation holds a variety of fundraisers—impeccably coordinated and often sell-outs—such as its popular purse bingo, annual cash bash, and its celebrity bartender event. Hammer is a longtime supporter of New Blossoms New Life, participating in the foundation’s annual golf tournament for eight years—even before he met his wife. He comments, though, that grant recipients themselves are the most eager to participate and give back to the foundation with their time and donations. “New Blossoms New Life made our family possible,” he says, “We’re going to give back no matter what.” Layman adds that the community has been extremely supportive of foundation events through donations and participation. The communities of recipient families have also supported the foundation directly with awards; for example, from Erie Gives and Fairview Cares. In its first year, New Blossoms New Life provided financial assistance for IVF to five couples. Because of the dedicated work of volunteers and support from the community, 14 couples received grants in 2017. “It’s exciting, and I think the foundation will grow by leaps and bounds in the years to come,” says Layman. MAKING SURE NO ONE FACES THE JOURNEY ALONE The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) estimates that about one in eight couples are challenged by some form of infertility. Although it’s a relatively common problem, those who experience infertility often feel alone. New Blossoms New Life works to raise awareness through community education and provides the emotional support these couples need. The organization invites anyone struggling with infertility to attend its support group, held the second Tuesday of the month. Everyone, whether a New Blossoms New Life grant recipient or not, is welcome to attend. Details are available on the New Blossoms Infertility Support Group Facebook page. “You can feel very alone when you’re going through this, when all of your friends are having babies,” says Layman. “You don’t have to feel like you’re in the dark. It’s close to our hearts, and we’ve been through it. Everyone is positive and supportive.” “Not a lot of people understand what it’s like to face infertility,” adds Richardson-Hammer. “How do you digest the information that you’re never going to have a family? At the support group you can share as much or as little as you want, and bring friends with you. It’s an open door to anyone who needs us.” “Over the years, I’ve seen a number of people I know reach out to New Blossoms,” notes Layman. “You don’t realize how many people infertility affects. But it’s amazing each year to see more couples get to experience parenthood.” UNEXPECTED BLESSINGS Layman points out that New Blossoms New Life has given her more than the ability to have a family. “In our selection group, there were six other applicants, and now we all have 4-year-old children,” she says. “New Blossoms New Life has brought us together, and our kids are all going to grow up knowing each other. It’s really becoming a second family. We gained more than our kids. We gained lifelong friends. “Hopefully our kids can carry on with the foundation in the future. I want to instill that in my kids—knowing that it’s important to give back to such a worthy cause.” Reflecting on all the couples the foundation has helped, Richardson- Hammer adds, “We’re very fortunate. There are a lot of communities that don’t have anything like this.” To learn more about New Blossoms New Life Foundation, criteria for grant eligibility, and upcoming fundraising events, visit newblossomsnewlife.org, or facebook.com/newblossomsnewlife. n WEST COUNTY ❘ WINTER 2018 29