IN West County Summer 2014 | Page 33

1 UNPLUGGING FROM AN ONLINE WORLD In the ‘70s and ‘80s, daytime television was limited to soap operas and game shows, a lineup that would make any kid bored enough to turn off the TV and head outside. There wasn’t the lure of limitless video games and social media websites. Not to mention, the word cyber-bullying didn’t even exist. Simply put, it’s hard not to be overwhelmed with electronics today. But a camp provides kids with a temporary respite. “We pride ourselves in being completely unplugged,” said Yonko. “We’re surrounded by 120 acres of nature, nestled in Fairview. Our cell phone service is very limited. So there is not a lot of ability to connect. Philosophically we feel that’s a good thing. We tell parents that campers should leave their devices at home.” 2 GETTING A TASTE OF INDEPENDENCE & ADVENTURE Our culture of constant connectedness through cell phones often makes it difficult for parents to let their kids be inaccessible for a whole week. But Yonko explains that this is a chance for a child to write a letter and have the excitement of receiving a letter or care package at mail call. It’s also a chance for kids to make a few of their own choices and explore on their own. “The counselors teach them how to build a campfire and tell them stories. In the middle of the week they put on a big scavenger hunt,” says Yonko. “These are some of the creative parts of camp that are so unique. It’s not something you can buy or find in a video game.” 3 LEARNING HOW TO MAKE NEW FRIENDS THE OLD FASHIONED WAY Yonko says that most campers come to camp knowing at least one other kid, but by the end of the week they inevitably have made new friendships, some that last a lifetime. “Bunking in a cabin with a dozen other kids and a counselor for an entire week, they get to know each other quite well. During the week they spend time team building, bonding and working toward common goals,” he said. “They start off not so sure about it. But soon they break down the barriers.” He added that things like songs, skits and the counselors acting silly and crazy helps the campers to get more comfortable and to not be afraid to act silly themselves. This all contributes to the perfect environment for new friendships to blossom. 4 GETTING DOWN RIGHT DIRTY According to Yonko, a highlight every week at Camp Notre Dame is what they refer to as the “Amazon Hike.” Campers walk in and along a stream until they arrive at Lake Erie where they can play in clay pits and get completely covered in mud. “After that their clothes will never be the same again,” says Yonko. “We advise parents not to send their kids’ best stuff.” He adds with a laugh that campers’ luggage doubles in weight over the course of the week with the addition of dirt and rocks. Contrary to what you might think, getting dirty does not come naturally to many kids; some struggle with it because it is not something they are normally allowed to do. But Yonko says that getting messy shouldn’t be thought of as a bad thing. “If you’re really going to experience life, you have to get dirty sometimes, and immerse yourself in it, and enjoy it!” 5 EXPLORING NATURE OR “TURNING A FERN” A favorite saying at Camp Notre Dame, which was coined by one of its counselors, is “Turn a Fern.” What is meant by the phrase is that when you take the time to turn