IN West County Fall 2016 | Page 21

If your child is a struggling reader, find books he or she can read so that reading is enjoyable, not painful. Many popular books have movie adaptations and for many kids, knowing they can watch the movie after they read the book can be a great motivator. Creating crafts or doing outdoor activities relating to books makes reading even more fun when the sun is out. Some of the simplest and best ideas can be found on Pinterest, blogs, and homeschooling or teaching sites. All these make the process of easing back into reading less stressful and daunting. Set Priorities and Scheduling Early On In The Overscheduled Child by Rosenfeld and Wise, the authors refer to children who have every minute of their day planned and scheduled—thus leading to stressed-out and unfocused kids. The authors have a point. Children are naturally curious and excited about participating in similar activities to their peers or whatever seems exciting and novel for them (which is just about everything), but as parents, we need to curb a bit of that enthusiasm. Even if your children are whip smart and seem to have their extracurricular activities and school work under control, that “control”, can be draining even without a child knowing it. Discuss what activities, clubs or sports occur during each season and rate the ones the child wants to do the most, to allow for downtime. Time management often leads to excellent stress management skills and what better way to prepare your child not only for the school year, but for life. Understand the “Testing Frenzy” During the first 3-4 weeks of classes, schools test children using “benchmark” assessments. These assessments are given to children in grades 3-8 to establish a baseline—a starting point to measure progress. Schools then give two to three follow-up benchmark assessments to evaluate how children are progressing and to predict how well students will perform on the Pennsylvania System of School Assessment (PSSAs). The PSSAs, which assess students in reading and math, are then administered during the spring for grades 3-8. In addition, grades 4 and 8 are assessed in science and in grades 9 through 12, students take the Keystone Exams once each year, starting with Algebra 1, then Biology, and finally Literature. In addition to all this, depending on the school district, teachers administer diagnostic assessments (ex: DIBELS, DRA) to check how children in grades K-6 are progressing in reading. A lot of testing? Absolutely. Many children stress-out during tests depending on their ability level in school. Some students want to get the best grade and others are afraid of failing. The best way to mentally prepare your children for these tests is to explain the purpose behind them: schools are making sure they are doing a good job of teaching all students. Advise your Continued on page 21 > West County | Fall 2016 | icmags.com 19