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Trella family Two years after his passing, Michael Trella’s family continues to honor his memory by helping others. W school and scholarships. We want to grow the foundation to hile many people donned fancy hats and went not only fund the grieving parents, but bolster the scholarships. out to watch Justify eventually win the 144th We’d eventually like to reach out to local universities and set up Kentucky Derby, nearly 250 people were in scholarships in Michael’s nam e and grow it beyond this little Imperial at the SNPJ Lodge raising money for I world we’re in.” Love You More/The Michael Trella Foundation, which just left He notes that Michael’s passing brought the family an the starting gates itself. outpouring of support from Moon residents as well as people Named for Michael Trella, who passed away unexpectedly in from all over the region who had no connection at all. his sleep in October 2016, at the age of 15, the foundation’s goal “Moon Township was huge as far as support, but we had is to “show the kindness Michael expressed by raising money to people from South Fayette and Upper St. Clair reaching out to support others in need.” us too. People just reached out, and it was an amazing thing to Mark Trella, Michael’s father, says the nascent foundation is see, just the people who came out to be there for us,” Trella says. off to a great start, and has been evolving in the past year and a “It doesn’t change that hole you have in your heart. Our lives will half to solidify its mission. never be the same, but it helps you with managing things you’re “The plan was to help others in any regard and provide some not ready to manage. It allowed us to grieve without having scholarships in Moon Township. We gave out some scholarships to worry about ancillary things. To be and helped some people in need, but functional. We’re still here, and now we’re we’ve also become more focused and “THE PLAN WAS TO HELP trying to get back to the community, and firmed up our identity,” he says. OTHERS IN ANY REGARD AND to keep Michael’s memory alive by helping The people the foundation focuses on others. That’s the kind of kid he was.” helping are parents who lose children, like PROVIDE SOME SCHOLARSHIPS The Kentucky Derby event will continue the Trellas, and don’t expect what comes next. IN MOON TOWNSHIP. WE GAVE to be the foundation’s main fundraising vehicle. The Trellas do other smaller “When you lose a child, you don’t fundraisers, like participate in the Amazon expect that. Even in the case of a sick child, OUT SOME SCHOLARSHIPS Smile program, which donates portions of you don’t make plans for a funeral; you AND HELPED SOME PEOPLE sales to charities, but Trella says he wants worry about your child getting better,” to focus on one big event each year. And, if Trella explains. “No parent should ever IN NEED, BUT WE’VE ALSO you didn’t make this year’s event, mark your worry about how much it’s going to cost BECOME MORE FOCUSED AND 2019 calendar for a gala like no other. The them, or be limited financially in terms event includes bidding on races throughout of the type of arrangements they need FIRMED UP OUR IDENTITY.” the day and culminates with the big Derby to grieve. If they want an interment in race. Participants enjoy mint juleps, a silent a mausoleum, they should have that auction, live entertainment and more. If you option. They should be able to give their want to donate to the foundation, or find child the best. That’s one arm of the out more, go to trella27.com.   ■ foundation. The other arm is focused on WEST ALLEGHENY ❘ FALL 2018 15