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Common Sense Tips To Follow As You Separate !
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MARITAL DIFFICULTIES ?

Common Sense Tips To Follow As You Separate !

If you are unhappy in your marriage and have been considering separating from or divorcing your spouse , here is some important advice to take into consideration when deciding on what your next steps should be .

1 . You should never just move out without first consulting a lawyer . Likewise , you should never try to force your spouse to leave without consulting a lawyer . We will help you to understand the consequences of these scenarios , and help you to decide the best approach for your situation .
2 . One of your first steps prior to taking any action is to gather information . Collect copies of all financial documentation such as bank statements , retirement account statements , tax returns , pay stubs , password information , credit card and mortgage statements , employment agreements , life insurance documentation , and everything else that helps provide a complete picture of your financial circumstances . We will assist you in this regard .
3 . Secure and safeguard your sentimental and / or irreplaceable marital items that could “ disappear ” once a separation takes place , such as jewelry , guns , coins , photographs , artwork and antiques . We will discuss with you appropriate steps to be taken .
4 . Take photos of your household belongings and , if possible , make a written inventory of each room of the house if you are contemplating a separation or divorce .
5 . Understand your household budget and your personal expenses . Whether you are staying in the marital home , or leaving , understanding what it takes to pay the monthly expenses is an important part of this process . An analysis of your budgetary needs and your net monthly income and the impact of potential support should be done . Talking with us as to understand whether you are eligible for support or whether you will be obligated to pay support will help with the overall analysis and strategy .
6 . Identify whether there are joint accounts at risk and talk to us about how to protect them .
7 . Talk to us about additional steps to take to ensure your financial stability in the early stages of this process . The court system often moves slowly , and you may need to take certain steps in the beginning to avoid a dramatic change of circumstances .
8 . Establish a network of family and / or friends at the outset to provide you with emotional support and help with the children .
9 . Understand that sometimes , things can happen that are beyond your control . We will help you to handle whatever you may have to face .
10 . Do not discuss your plans to divorce or separate with your children . We can help you to understand what is , and what is not appropriate in this situation and guide you to the right professionals to assist as well .
Our team of top divorce and family law attorneys are available to answer your hardest questions . We represent men and women like you every day to navigate this very difficult time in your life . Contact us at www . smgglaw . com or 412.281.5423 .
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