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E INDUSTRY INSIGHT FAMILY LAW veryone knows someone who has gone through a divorce. That person likely has quite a few stories to tell. However, some stories can get lost in translation or just misstate the law. Here are the Top Divorce Myths Debunked: Myth #1: Equitable distribution of the marital estate means a 50/50 split between spouses. There is no formula for determining how your assets and debts are divided in a divorce. Rather, there are 11 factors that are considered to determine how to split up the estate, which include the length of the marriage, standard of living of the parties, the contribution of one spouse to the other’s education, employability of a spouse, and whether one spouse is a primary custodian of any minor children. Myth #2: If a spouse commits adultery, he or she will receive less of the marital estate. Marital misconduct is not factored into equitable distribution of the marital estate at all. However, it is one of 17 factors considered when determining if a spouse should receive/ pay alimony. Myth #3: The mother always receives custody of a child in a divorce. In Pennsylvania, the courts do not give preferential treatment to one parent over another. Rather, they analyze what is in the best interests of the child when determining who should exercise custody and how much each parent should get. The court will factor in who can provide a stable, loving and nurturing environment for the child, how well the parents communicate and co-parent, etc. The law values the involvement of both parents in a child’s life and will often give equal physical custody time to parents if it is in the child’s best interests. Myth #4: Individually titled assets like a house or a pension cannot be divided in a divorce. When dividing a marital estate, any assets or debts, including a retirement account, house or a credit card bill, may be divided in a divorce regardless of whose name the asset or debt is titled in, so long as the asset or debt was acquired or accrued during the marriage. There are ways of dividing retirement accounts in a divorce that prevent any negative tax consequences or penalties. SPONSORED CONTENT Myth #5: All dependent spouses are entitled to alimony. In Pennsylvania, the courts consider 17 factors when determining whether a spouse should get alimony, including the earning capacity or income of the parties, length of the marriage, education of the parties, and the contribution of a spouse as a homemaker. One important thing to remember is that alimony is a secondary remedy, meaning the courts first analyze what a dependent spouse would get through equitable distribution (how much of the marital estate) and if that is enough to meet his/ her reasonable needs before determining if an award of alimony is necessary. Myth #6: No child support will be paid if there is 50/50 custody. The Pennsylvania courts will award child support even if there is equal custody since both parents may not earn the same income. The courts want to avoid having the parents on uneven footing when exercising custody. For example, the courts do not want the kids going to Dad’s mansion with a pool and then going to Mom’s two- bedroom apartment because there is such a disparity in incomes. It is not fair to the kids or to the parents. However, the court may award a reduced amount of support to compensate the payor parent for having the children for equal time. Myth #7: You must appear in court to get a divorce. Many people do not ever set foot inside of a courtroom to handle their divorce. A divorce can be processed through the courts, and the outstanding issues can all be handled outside of court through mediation, collaborative divorce or through a privately negotiated settlement. TOP DIVORCE MYTHS IN PENNSYLVANIA DEBUNKED www.mcmorrowlaw.com This Industry Insight was written by Brooke B. McMorrow. Attorney McMorrow is the founding member and Managing Attorney of McMorrow Law, LLC located in Wexford, Pennsylvania. McMorrow Law focuses on family law matters such as divorce, custody, child support, guardianship, estate planning, and probate/estate administration in Pittsburgh and the surrounding counties. Attorney McMorrow is collaboratively trained, a certified mediator and parenting coordinator. She is also a founding member of Collaborative Solutions North. She is licensed to practice in Pennsylvania and New York. For a free initial consultation call 724.940.0100 or visit the website at www.mcmorrowlaw.com. NORTH ALLEGHENY ❘ SUMMER 2019 27