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O INDUSTRY INSIGHT FAMILY LAW ver the past three years or so, we are seeing more and more requests for prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. Why are the numbers rising? For pre- nups, couples are starting to see how important these documents can be to protect their pre-marital assets, debts and earning power. However, for post- nups, with many parents choosing whether to work or stay home to raise the children, postnuptial agreements are on the rise. Prenuptial agreements. Whether we are talking about the possibility of a divorce or death during a future marriage, pre-nups can be very useful in saving couples time, money and heartache later on. Of course, everyone wants to believe that they would never get divorced as they are picking colors for their bridesmaid gowns, but we have to be realistic, practical and logical because none of us knows what the future holds. Pre-nups can lay out who gets what asset, if support will be paid and for how long (think alimony), what happens if you buy something together with pre-marital money, and numerous other scenarios in the event of divorce or separation. The common perception of prenuptial agreements is that they are for people who think their marriage will fail or for people who are rich and marry gold diggers. However, no matter how little you have, it is a good idea to get an agreement in writing while your relationship is good and communication is free- flowing, rather than deal with it when you aren’t talking or by paying lawyers to do the talking for you. Look at it as a learning experience for having uncomfortable conversations, and as your first responsible act in contemplation of marriage besides picking the cake flavor. Getting a pre-nup drafted tends to be much cheaper than litigating a divorce. Pre-nups can also cover what happens in the event of separation or a death with regard to certain assets. This can be especially important in second marriages with children from a first marriage. Most importantly, have the pre-nup process completed well in advance of a wedding. You don’t want to start off your marriage signing papers at your rehearsal dinner or at the altar. SPONSORED CONTENT Postnuptial agreements. What is a postnuptial agreement anyhow? Spouses can create a postnuptial agreement for a variety of reasons including career change, separation, asset purchase, starting a new company, and adultery among others. Of course, it still takes both spouses to agree to this and it is not negotiated in contemplation of marriage. First, there needs to be some protection in place for a spouse who leaves his/her career to become a stay- at-home parent. After all, if a divorce comes down the pike, that stay-at-home parent will likely have to re-enter the workforce after years of not working, where he/she may have given up tenure, allowed licenses to lapse and skills to get rusty, etc., or perhaps that parent gave up his/her education to follow his/her spouse’s career moves. Having a post-nup outlines what will happen in a separation or divorce to allow for support or a living situation until that spouse gets a similar job back. If there’s a romantic or financial infidelity in a marriage, a post-nup helps define who gets what if you don’t end up reconciling, and locks down both spouses’ rights and responsibilities. There could even be a start-up company one spouse invests in and the other does not want to be on the hook for any debts or liabilities related to the new business venture. Regardless of the trend, just like pre-marital counseling, a pre- nup should be on the checklist before saying “I do.” If you missed the boat on a prenuptial agreement, there is always the possibility of a postnuptial agreement so that you and your spouse are on the same page for the duration of your marriage. Above all, you should consult with an attorney to discuss how a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement can work for you. INCREASING TREND IN PRE‑NUPS AND POST‑NUPS www.mcmorrowlaw.com This Industry Insight was written by Brooke B. McMorrow. Attorney McMorrow is the founding member and Managing Attorney of McMorrow Law, LLC located in Wexford, Pennsylvania. McMorrow Law focuses on family law matters such as divorce, custody, child support, guardianship, estate planning, and probate/estate administration in Pittsburgh and the surrounding counties. Attorney McMorrow is collaboratively trained, a certified mediator and parenting coordinator. She is also a founding member of Collaborative Solutions North. She is licensed to practice in Pennsylvania and New York. For a free initial consultation call 724.940.0100 or visit the website at www.mcmorrowlaw.com. NORTH ALLEGHENY ❘ SPRING 2019 45