IN Moon Township Spring 2020 | Page 31

INDUSTRY INSIGHT PARENTING SPONSORED CONTENT Six Ways to Help Children Cope with New Situations N ew experiences and transitions can be challenging for children to deal with. Learning expert and award- winning writer Susan Magsamen, member of The Goddard School Educational Advisory Board, offers six tips on how to help children cope with unfamiliar situations. 1. Talk with your child about upcoming new experiences. Share your own experiences about similar situations, including your feelings. When you share your emotions (fears, concerns, uncertainty), it gives your child permission to feel these, too. 2. Make it a story. When you put your experiences into a story with a beginning, middle and end, it helps your child develop a sequence and process for moving through any new situation. For example: “I was worried that I would get lost at school and be late for class. So I went to school with my mom the week before school started and figured out where everything was. It made me feel so much better.” 3. Find creative solutions to problems. Ask your child whether he has any questions about a new experience. Work together to creatively solve each of these problems one by one. Make it simple and easy. 4. Imagine together what a new experience will be like. Your child may not have a specific concern, but it helps to create a virtual image of what a new experience might be and what might come up. Researchers have found that by simulating or play-acting, you are more likely to have a frame of reference to ease into a new situation. 5. Have grounding things. When transitioning from a familiar situation to an unfamiliar one, it’s important to have something with you that makes you feel safe and grounded. For young children it could be a book, a stuffed animal, a This Industry Insight was written by Dina Speranza & Carol Maier. They are the owners of The Goddard School®, located at 800 Commerce Avenue in Moon Township. Goddard offers both full- and part-time Infant/Preschool/ Kindergarten programs. For more information, visit goddardschool.com/Pittsburgh or call 412.262.1821. favorite jacket or a photo of the family. Ask the school in advance about guidelines for what children can bring to school. 6. Make home a safe and welcoming place. When your child comes home from school, start with a big smile and a bigger hug. Then offer a simple snack. You could also provide downtime that doesn’t include screens and other distractions. Above all else, be sure to encourage at-home and bedtime rituals during the week that enable your child to get lots of rest and sleep. NURTURE IS OUR NATURE. NOW ENROLLING! > Tour your local Goddard School and experience why it’s the best preparation for social and academic success. Goddard Systems, Inc.’s program is AdvancED accredited. CRANBERRY TOWNSHIP 724-778-9999 MOON TOWNSHIP 412-262-1821 WEXFORD 724-935-1100 GoddardSchool.com The Goddard Schools are operated by independent franchisees under a license agreement with Goddard Systems, Inc. Programs and ages may vary. Goddard Systems, Inc. program is AdvancED accredited. © Goddard Systems, Inc. 2014 MOON TOWNSHIP ❘ SPRING 2020 29