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She also emphasized the importance of each role, whether large or small, but says she learned more from the children than they learned from her: “You expect kids to act a certain way, but when it came down to it they were always there for each other.” Directing the musicals has helped Rhoades improve her leadership, time management and communication skills. “After the first show, I realized I was the director,” Rhoades says. “Usually I am more of a follower but it gave me confidence because they were looking to me for answers.” She loves working with children and also learned a lot about directing. “The number one thing is to be patient,” Rhoades explains. “It’s hard for them to pay musicals became more complex, especially attention. It also helps to treat them like their the choreography. Several participants, age, because they won’t listen to you if you including sisters Lily and Abby Stephenson, treat them like little kids.” praised Rhoades for her leadership and After rehearsing for weeks, the children creativity. “I like how confident she was and found it difficult to maintain a high level of how she had so many great ideas,” Lily says. energy during the final performance. Rhoades Carly Dowell also participated in two suggested that they act musicals, and her mother, like it was the first time Michele, says she is “I always teach the kids they were doing it. excited about the next “You need to give it one: “Amanda is amazing that the show wouldn’t as much energy as you with the kids and gets did the first time you them excited about happen without them, performed it, so the performing.” audience can really feel Rhoades plans to but there would be no it,” she says. continue to direct Rhoades also musicals during the show without anyone encouraged the audience summers while she to laugh and clap. else along the way.” completes her studies at “It can’t be a good California University. She show without a good is also a member of two audience,” she notes. “The kids need approval choirs and an a capella group at the university. and they need to know what they’re doing is After she graduates, she wants to open her right.” own children’s theater. She has always been Between 2014 and 2016, the cast grew interested in musical theater and “Newsies” from 10 to 23 children. Rhoades says the is her favorite show. However, Rhoades says she is usually a shy person and when she first began performing she did not have a lot of confidence. “I was always very hard on myself,” she adds. “I didn’t have any stage presence. I never really wanted to put my voice out there.” However, she has become more confident over time and says that is one of the most important parts of performing. Her parents also encouraged her and pushed her to succeed. “It’s 90 percent confidence and 10 percent actually singing,” Rhoades says. “I need to have the confidence to hit the high notes; otherwise I won’t [be able].” Obviously, practicing is still important and Rhoades urges aspiring singers to develop their own voice. “You shouldn’t aspire to sound like someone else,” she says. “You should make your own voice stronger but you should keep the special quality that makes it yours.” n Some of the casts of the past productions that Rhodes has directed for St. Thomas More Church. Bethel Park | Winter 2016 | icmags.com 15