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INPERSON An Honorable Veteran Bethel Park’s Haya Eason honors veterans by honoring her own service as a Marine. BY W.B. FRESA I Haya Eason serving in the U.S. Marine Corps, where she says she learned the skills necessary to prepare her for life. The one thing the military does is give you training, but even before that, it teaches you how to work as a team. You are trained to be in a constant state of readiness. 18 724.942.0940 TO ADVERTISE | Bethel Park n February, Soldiers & Sailors Memorial Hall & Museum Trust invited Haya Eason, a Bethel Park resident and Marine Corps veteran, to be a guest panelist for the annual African-American Heritage Celebration titled, “Black Veterans with Success: Their History and Commitment to Excellence.” This year highlighted the service of African- American women. “When I first received the invitation, I was a little taken aback,” says Eason. “While my family and I attended three of these celebrations in the past, the fact that I was in the Marine Corps for nine years is something most people don’t know about me. So being part of a panel to discuss my military career was a surreal and humbling moment.” Eason grew up in Detroit, the youngest of five children of her Army veteran father, who served in the Korean War, and her mother, a Detroit Public School system teacher. “I had a pretty good childhood but I was shy,” notes Eason. “So in seventh grade, my mother decided she didn’t want me to be negatively influenced by the middle school and high school, so she enrolled me in a Catholic middle school that fed into an all- girl high school close to where she taught. Unfortunately, it was not a good experience for my older sister and me. It was not very nurturing, there were not many African- Americans in the school, and we were not Catholic.” As the end of high school neared, Eason’s mother asked her to think about plans after graduation. “Most of the kids in school seemed so sure of their future plans,” says Eason. “But because I was a late bloomer and felt a bit stifled in high school, I thought college was a place to become what you wanted to be in terms of a career. Of course, I know now it’s also a place to help you discover your talents. Since I didn’t feel I was outgoing or mature enough to attend college, I decided to look into the military.” After taking the Armed Services Vocational Aptitude Battery test, Eason learned she qualified for the field of Administration. “My mother was not at all happy. But my father, who had served as an Army officer, knew I would learn responsibility and independence and said, ‘Let her go.’” In May 1981, Eason left Detroit and traveled to Parris Island, SC, for boot camp. “I had no idea what to expect,” she recalls. “I knew nothing about being in the military because my father had not talked about his experience during the Korean War. It made those first months pretty hard and a racial confrontation arose with others in my platoon. Nothing physical, but the superior officer decided to scold me when, actually, I was the one who was confronted. This incident let me know where I stood and I’d have to speak up for myself. When I think back on it now, even one small shred of support from anyone around me at that time would have made such a huge difference, but that did not come on a regular basis until later down the road.” Eason was enlisted as an active duty Marine for nine years. Her military specialty