IMBO Magazine Issue 33: One Love | Page 34

F O C U S F E AT U R E “MANY PEOPLE EXPERIENCE PHYSICAL CLOSENESS WITHOUT ANY FORM OF P O S I T I V E E X C H A N G E .” Redefining Love “To love without condition, to talk self-gratification we lack within. without intention, to give without This eludes to how we’re selfishly reason, to care without expectation.”– seeking love that is only to our benefit. Abstract from The Spirit of True Love Family systems have also suffered Love is a concept that has over time due to disconnect from divine love. become diluted to fit the demands of Relationships and friendships have man. We find the ‘ego state of mind’ also become despondent due to the (Me, myself and I) is the main culprit. lack of genuine interaction. Higher The ego negotiates its conditions for love is based on the desire to share. love based on what it may gain from the interaction. This means we might This is important because many be utilising our gift of love all wrong! people experience physical closeness without any form of positive exchange. This equates to why our connection When we have the goal of increasing with others may be quick to fade or the welfare of all those we come into may feel limited over time. The ego contact with, then the practice of based interaction is all about an unconditional love can be a reality. agenda to gain that fulfilment and IMBO/ ISSUE 32/ '14 34