IGIRL “The Art of Relationships”
What to say, what NOT to say, Rules for the
perfect date.
Every girl dreams of the perfect candle light on
the rooftop, gazing at the stars, with amazing
chemistry type of date. But all that romantic can
turn into a nightmare in a split second. There are
rules when you’re on a date; there are those
“Too much, Too Soon” questions and those
“Just right”
questions.
First dates are
always awkward;
you’re forced to sit
across from
someone who
could potentially
be the love of your
life. If you want to
have the perfect
date that you’ve
always dreamed of,
there are some
things you must do
and must not do:
Survival Tips
1. “Mama’s Boy”
It’s always awkward at first, but to open up the
conversation you can talk about family. Those
are relationships that your date has been with
his/her whole life, and you can tell a lot about a
person on how they speak on their close
relatives like mother, sister, father, brothers. It
also can give you an idea of how they’ll treat
you.
2. “Relations”
Here is where you can ask: “What was your
longest relationship?” With this question you
don’t have to go into
details of who their ex was,
that’s a NO GO! But this
question will give you a
feel if the person that you
can potentially be with is a
committed person. Does
the “commitment red flag”
pop up? Or are they into
long time relationships
with their significant
others?
3. “Future Life”
This is you opportunity to
ask the biggest question: Where do you see
yourself in the next five years? With this
question you can see if your date sees a future
with a significant other? Does he want a
girlfriend? If he sees himself at home with the
woman of his dreams (who just happens to look
a lot like you). You can also get a feel of where
he wants to go career wise, and if he matches up
to your future goals and plans.