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The Journal We can use stories, metaphors and colorful anecdotes instead of just clinical facts by engaging maximum of their senses possible. It might be very surprising to believe this truth that such stories convincingly tap into the emotions adding depth to the talks, making it surreal sometimes. We just have to make sure that our stories are relevant enough, concentrated and should attract full patient attention making sure to avoid idle gossip or unnecessary prolix. I will quote a few stories as an e.g. here. We all usually explain to the patient that a tooth has 3 layers. The other way is to tell them, it is like an Indian family where generally it is the role of father to protect family; same as enamel to protect tooth. Dentin protects the tooth but is sensitive just like mothers who are sensitive. The one who needs maximum protection are the children much like the pulp (nerves). Similarly for orthodontic treatment, the story can be weaved as “You are unique and beautiful in your own way. God has made only one of you. I am suggesting the treatment to treat the functionality, not looks”. If the patient is esthetic conscious, “God has blessed you with strong functioning face, I am suggesting treatment to enhance your looks and it will be fine with your inputs because God didn't take your feedback while making you. But I am not God, so let us enhance your beauty with your feedback and inputs, so that this time you have more control over your beauty”. For implants patients, there are many convincing points, but the end line can be, “I can shave your natural teeth to give you a ‘Bridge’ but then we have no backup. With implants you still have ‘Bridge’ or the ‘FPD’ as a backup”. The back up can be correlated with their life: for e.g. for a home maker; just like you save money hidden from your husband as a back up which can be life saving when the situation arises, for a businessman; back up just like you have various investments for hard times to save you, etc. We can actually create lots of stories depending upon patient perception and attitude classification. Most of us spend our lives as if we had another one in bank ~Ben Irwin 17 19. A word of mouth promise should never be broken: We all make so many unfulfilled promises to our patients which we usually don’t keep. A couple of them are, "We provide the best care in the area”, "Please be on time for your appointment to help us treat you on time”, "Why worry? I will complete all work in 3 sittings” and “We use the best quality of materials” etc. Firstly, let me be very clear; I am not saying all of us make all these promises, secondly, all of us break these promises and thirdly, it is just an example of many tall promises made by colleagues in various parts of country. The difference between empty talk and promises is that promises must be kept and if it turns out, you over-promised, but under-delivered, just remember to own up to it. Under-promise and over delivery should be the mantra of every practice, making sure customer (patient) is the king. Being honest usually does pays off in the long run. We all know the childhood saying, “A promise breaker is a shoemaker.” We have to make sure we follow it. Promise a lot and give even more ~ Anthony J D’Angelo 20. Pull, don’t push the treatment options: You and your team should be an advisor to your patient and not a salesperson. Your demo videos (demonstrations) & case presentations should focus on patients, their needs and wants, not you and your treatment alone. Patients want to be empowered and informed, not sold. Avoid the jargon with phrases like, ‘Here’s what you must get done,’ or ‘You need to get this ASAP’. Instead use phrases like, ‘You may want to consider our recommendation for your particular case,’ or ‘This is what many of our patients choose to do or have chosen to do’. Always remember, there is a very thin line between persuading and dragging the things. A good dentist never gets on your nerves. ~ Unknown Vol. 15 No. 1 Jan-April 2019