Iteka: The Best thing about marriage is that I have a best friend with me at all times. Someone who knows my needs and wants. When is the best time to give me them both. Having your biggest supporter by your side always. The Hardest thing in marriage is understanding each others space and knowing that everything will be understood by both partners and accepting everything. Every disagreeement won't end in your favor. Knowing your partner can accept you winning and you accept you losing makes it easier for you both. Also, its small but letting him lead the way.