Huffington Magazine Issue 9 | Page 33

Voices cuts to get to the reward with minimal effort, including cheating, shallow learning, and ineffective cramming. The satisfaction of learning for its own sake is completely lost. Rather than worrying so much about this student’s C+, his litigious parents might want to worry more about their son’s Type A reaction to it. It’s easy to sympathize with his initial distress, but maybe the real lesson to be learned here is about rising above setbacks and taking disappointments in stride, rather than seeking redress. This may be more a test of character than of chemistry proficiency. Have a little faith in college admissions officers, scholarship committees and employers, too. Even at highly selective schools, they are real people and they don’t require students to be perfect grade-achieving automatons who can walk on water. (I say this from experience, having been admitted to an Ivy League school myself with a C in high school Chemistry—not even a C+.) Admissions reps understand that a C+ in one class can be the equivalent of an A in another, and that any number of variables BONNIE SNYDER HUFFINGTON 08.12.12 can influence a grade. Colleges give applicants opportunities to explain any grades that seem inconsistent with the rest of the student’s academic record, and guidance counselors can call to discuss special situations and extenuating circumstances. All is not lost. There’s an old c’est la vie saying that goes, “You can’t spell Calculus without two ‘Cs’.” If Maybe the real lesson to be learned here is about rising above setbacks... This may be more a test of character than of chemistry proficiency.” that’s true, then it stands to reason that you also can’t spell Chemistry without one ‘C’. It’s time to lighten up, disgruntled chem student, and rediscover your sense of humor. It’s great to be a high-achieving student, but it’s even greater to develop the ability to roll with the punches rather than resorting to litigation when things don’t happen to go your way.