Huffington Magazine Issue 9 | Page 23

Enter Have you ever been the victim of bullying? I’ve never been bullied myself, but I’ve always stood up for those who’ve been bullied. As a family, we’re very much about, “If someone’s nice to you, you’d better be nice back.” That’s how I was brought up, that was my family’s core value. What is it about the Ben Cohen StandUp Foundation that makes it unique? Well, we were the world’s first and always will be. For us, it was important to lead. It’s all about getting efforts coordinated to create a cultural change and affect that next generation. Where homophobia is now is a lot different than it was 20 years ago, and with the power of social media, we think we can drive that [change] a lot quicker. It’s about education. Given that you’re a heterosexual, married father of two, how do you view your status as both a gay icon and sex symbol? I don’t really see it...“icon” is a big word. If men find me attractive, that’s fair enough. I’m very comfortable in my sexuality, and I’m honored and flattered by it—it’s lovely to hear. I wanted to [transfer the energy] of guys finding Q&A HUFFINGTON 08.12.12 me attractive and following me on Facebook to combating homophobia and bullying, and educating people along the way. It’s good to see we’ve converted that following for a good purpose. Whether or not I’ve saved someone’s life, I don’t know. But I like to think that I’ve helped. There’s nothing I do that I wouldn’t show my kids. Everyone needs underwear, so why not attach it to a good cause?” A cynic might suggest that posing shirtless for a calendar and modeling for an underwear line might cloud your foundation’s aim. How do you feel that incorporating sex appeal furthers the cause? You have to get people’s attention, and also get people to listen, and that’s what we’re doing. It’s important to remember that a lot of my fan base wasn’t here for a specific cause when we started. The pictures are all fun and they’re harmless. There’s nothing that I do that I wouldn’t show my kids. Everyone needs