Huffington Magazine Issue 88 | Page 5

LETTER FROM THE EDITOR Honda Toru, a Japanese cultural critic, feels these virtual relationships in fact offer a certain advantage, because they avoid the system of “love capitalism” — gifts and dinners — that can harm reallife relationships. Anthropologist Patrick Galbraith goes a step further: “I would say that a relationship with a LovePlus character is a real relationship.” Still, some aren’t quite at the point where they’re willing to forgo a real-life girlfriend. As Theo Tkaczevski, a 23-year-old American student who happens to be dating Rinko, puts it, “I’m personally of the opinion that 3-D easily beats 2-D.” Elsewhere in the issue, Mallika Rao speaks to female conductor Sera Tokay about sexism in the classical music world, which gained attention last year after a series of insensitive comments from top male conductors in the industry. Consider, for example, Vasily Petrenko’s words — that “a cute girl at the podium” is too distracting. Or Yuri Temirnakov’s: “The essence of the conductor’s profession is strength. The essence of a woman is weakness.” HUFFINGTON 02.16.14 Women, these men argue, simply aren’t suited for the field. “A systematically dissuasive policy against women,” Tokay tells Mallika, is used “as a proof of their natural disability.” I would say that a relationship with a LovePlus character is a real relationship.” In our Voices section, 29-yearold Elizabeth Scarboro gives a moving reflection on the surreal experience of life after being widowed. “You feel your sense of purpose deflating,” Scarboro writes. “When you’re on an airplane, you no longer have the thought that it can’t crash because someone needs you.” Finally, as part of our continued focus on The Third Metric, we share the stories of six public figures who are quiet at heart, from Richard Branson to Will Ferrell. ARIANNA