Huffington Magazine Issue 88 | Page 27

Voices ELIZABETH SCARBORO GETTY IMAGES/BLEND IMAGES RM On Being a Widow WEDNESDAY MORNING, 7 a.m., the radio alarm blaring. Keep your eyes closed. Don’t move, because you have miraculously woken up in your old life. The bed’s warm, your husband’s snoring next to you. Only the snore is more of a low whine, accompanied by a rough pawing against your back. The dogs, nudging you to get up. Your brain, moving slowly, registers this as a logic puzzle. If you’ve gone back in time, and your husband is still here, the dogs can’t fit on the bed, and the alarm is set to beep. The dogs do fit on the bed, and HUFFINGTON 02.16.14