Huffington Magazine Issue 85 | Page 30

GETTY IMAGES/FLICKR RF Voices The first time I told Rylee that she was a lighthouse, she asked me what that made me. (Lighthouses generally recognize those that are — and aren’t — fellow lighthouses.) I thought about it for a minute. I said: “The Bermuda Triangle.” The Bermuda Triangle is so far from sailors’ minds that it isn’t even really on the map. They’d rather not even think about it. Even if a few of them knew, theoretically, that the Bermuda Triangle was out there, they wouldn’t be able to find it if they wanted to. They would become lost, possibly forever. For the most part, though, they don’t want to try. The Bermuda Triangle is scary and confusing. Sailors hear bad things about it. They’d rather just go around it, staying as far away as humanly possible. I know that sounds like an exaggeration. And sure, to some extent, it probably is. For instance, there isn’t anything about me that is analogous to the Bermuda Triangle’s “rogue wave” phenomenon (at least I hope there isn’t). I don’t capsize sailors, much less entire ships. I keep myself to myself, you know? In fact, I think that’s probably what the Bermuda Triangle is up to. It doesn’t mean to do any harm, and it’s actually pretty nice once you get KATIE HEANEY to know it. It’s just that Bermuda doesn’t know how to handle itself when somebody sails into its territory, because that hardly ever happens. It hasn’t had much chance to practice, and it’s used to things going a certain way. So if a sailor DOES come around, it gets a little nervous, freaks the fuck out, and creates hurricane-like devastation in every direction around it. And then it gets embarrassed and sad and calls its friends. I do not present this theory because I feel sorry for myself. It’s just the way things are. Not all of us can be born lighthouses, or nobody would ever get anything done and there would be more sex happening than you could even believe. I just think it’s important that I make my Triangular nature clear up front. My name is Katie Heaney, and I’m a Bermuda Triangle. As a result, and possibly as a re- HUFFINGTON 01.26.14