Huffington Magazine Issue 72 | Page 78

THE THIRD Exit METRIC MARTIN GEE HUFFINGTON 10.27.13 The Art of Getting Exactly What You Want BY CAROLINE GREGOIRE OW DO WE GET what we want in work and in life? That question drives many of our habits and behaviors, and has made self-help β€” with countless books, workshops, seminars and retreats promising the elusive answer to that very question β€” a billiondollar industry. It’s made titles like Goals! How To Get Everything H You Want β€” Faster Than You Ever Thought Possible, See You At The Top, and How to Win Friends & Influence People best-sellers. A thousand different pieces of advice promise the path to getting what you want, most of which involve overcoming your fear and persevering through setbacks. And in addition to external resistance, we tend to set up a lot of obstacles