Huffington Magazine Issue 64-65 | Page 60

HUFFINGTON 09.01-08.13 INVISIBLE CASUALTIES suicide prevention programs and outreach, said they had no veteranspecific programs, did not routinely look for veterans to connect with the VA, and really had no idea where to send veterans in need. “There are so many resources and different organizations, and one person calling one organization isn’t going to get a fraction of all the help that’s out there,” said Valerie Glauser, a family therapist in suburban Philadelphia. “There is no community clearinghouse for all types of veteran support for those of us who work in behavioral health.” After hours of discussion, the group came up with two solid plans: spread the word about VA programs in new ways — such as posters on buses and job fairs — and train volunteer veterans for peer counseling. With all these campaigns and programs, the most effective suicide prevention tool often seems to be an individual — a family member or a friend — who makes the effort to be available. Army Sgt. Maj. Joseph Sanders, now 48, twice attempted suicide when depression, illness and anxiety sent him into what seemed like a bottomless pit with no other way out. One time he put a bullet in his revolver, and when he pulled the trigger it clicked on an empty chamber — a shock that brought him to his senses. The second time he ran his car engine in a closed garage before suddenly realizing how much he had to live for. At 1 a.m. he banged on a friend’s door to ask for help. “All it takes,” he said. “You always have someone to turn to, someone that cares.” His friend took him that night to a military chaplain and then to a suicide prevention officer. “We worked up a safety plan, and they said, ‘You go on home now and we’ll call in the morning to make sure you’re okay, and we’ll call you in the evening and continue checking on you until everything is okay and you’re not feeling as stressed.’” “Well,” Sanders said. “That was quite effective.” HuffPost reporter and Pulitzer Prize-winner David Wood (left) explains the thinking behind the “Invisible Casualties” series.