Huffington Magazine Issue 6 | Page 24

Enter Q&A HUFFINGTON 07.22.12 one evil empire but I do think that what we’re trying to push back against is the institutions that support the idea that you have to have money or power to have a voice in this democracy. And what we believe in is that by developing smart strategic campaigns we can raise the voices of everyday people. We can make their voices heard and just as loudly and in just as powerful ways as those that have millions or billions of dollars. You’ve talked about your family’s support for your activism, which has included your work with GLAAD. What was it like coming out to your parents? I took a while. I guess I say it’s a while because I worked at GLAAD and you hear kids coming out at 13 or 14 and you’re like “Whoa, like, that’s impressive.” I was not there. I came out when I was 22, 23, somewhere around that. I think that my parents had come to the realization at that point. I didn’t know what my support would look like. I also knew that it wasn’t going to be easy, and I’m black and now I’m going to be gay. Do you see yourself as a black man first or a gay man first? I wouldn’t even know how to answer the question. I don’t see myself more as my mother’s son first or my father’s son first. I’m a whole person and I’m all of these things and I don’t think you can sort of take a piece out without affecting the whole. So that’s a silly question? I do think that there’s a way in which folks want to compartmentalize because it’s easier. It’s easier to say that this is this piece of me and this is this piece of me. Part of being a good leader is bringing your whole self to the room. Robinson in New York City.